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Women at War – Honouring our Holy Family veterans

Female veterans at Holy Family (L to R): Penny Sitrling, Colleen de Serres and Geraldine Grimway. The three women are sitting in front of a Remembrance Day display.
Female veterans at Holy Family (L to R): Penny Stirling and Colleen de Serres

(Updated from original story published November 7, 2018)

It may have been decades ago, but veterans Colleen de Serres and Penny Stirling haven’t forgotten why they loved flying so much.

“You’re free, and you have this incredible freedom,” explains 87 year old Colleen. “The only thing that is holding you up there is the metal of the airplane.”

Penny grew up right next to an airfield in England and watched planes take off and land every day. The 95 year old says, “The feeling of being up in the air, looking out the windows, seeing all the people down below…that was what I loved.”

Cecilia Moore at podium with table of Remembrance Day wreaths next to her.
Cecilia Moore, Holy Family Spiritual Health Practitioner, leads the Remembrance Day service.


The women didn’t know each other in their previous lives, but since coming to Holy Family Residence, they have become neighbours and friends, often swapping stories about their service days, especially around Remembrance Day.

Flying was in her blood

Royal Canadian Air Force veteran Colleen de Serres sitting with flag in her lap.
Royal Canadian Air Force veteran Colleen de Serres, one of only two veterans remaining at Holy Family Residence.

Colleen was an acting corporal in the Royal Canadian Air Force. She served as part of NATO as a leading airwoman and was a bilingual switchboard operator in France during the Korean conflict. Flying ran in her blood, literally. Her great uncle John Alexander Douglas McCurdy was an aviation pioneer. In 1909 he was the first pilot to fly over Canadian soil, in a plane he built himself, which was also the first flight in the British Empire. McCurdy went on to become Lieutenant Governor of Nova Scotia. Colleen’s father was in the Air Force as well. Both men were huge inspirations for her.

“I couldn’t believe I was up in the air,” Colleen reminisces on her very first flight, “then we flew into the clouds and I couldn’t see anything!”  She flew a Tiger Moth and T-33 training jet and was just a month away from getting her civilian pilot’s licence when she was struck by a truck on base and gravely injured. Colleen was unconscious for three months with multiple broken bones, burns and injuries. She spent another two years undergoing 25 surgeries and hours of rehab at Shaughnessy Hospital. But she doesn’t like to dwell on the past, “Here I am now!”

A love affair with airplanes

Penny, a sergeant in the Royal Air Force during the Second World War who “always had a love affair with airplanes”, remembers all the details of her first time flying. One day a plane buzzed by the airfield by her house, so she waited for the pilot to come back. When he swooped down again, Penny was ready – she had her thumb up like a hitchhiker. Amazingly, the pilot landed and let her hop on board for a ride. He even let her take over the controls for a few moments. When they landed, she laughs as she recounts what he said to her, “You’re a lousy flier! You made me sick.” She doesn’t remember much about the pilot but there is no hesitation when asked about the type of plane. It was an Avro Anson.

Royal Air Force veteran Penny Stirling salutes as she lays a wreath at the Holy Family Remembrance Day service.
Royal Air Force veteran Penny Stirling salutes as she lays a wreath at the Holy Family Remembrance Day service.


During the war, Penny was on “special duties”, which she says is hard to explain in a few words. Her job involved getting all the information on each day’s operations. She was also a plotter,  which she describes as “the most boring job God ever thought of”, and a watchkeeper.

Honouring our war heroes

Remembrance Day is very meaningful to the three women, especially now there are so few of their fellow veterans left. There is a lot of laughter as they share their war stories, but also moments of sadness.

“It’s very important for all of us to remember,” Penny says. “I lost so many friends, mostly through combat.”

Colleen tears up when talking about the emotional scars borne by those who did come home.  “It’s sad. My husband was Army and my father was Air Force. They are both deceased. Nowadays you would call it PTSD.”

Colleen de Serres, Canadian Air Force veteran, lays a cross during the service.

Both women will be taking part in Remembrance Day services at the Vancouver Cenotaph.



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